Murder victim remembered for putting others first

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There was nothing deeper than the compassion and caring Scott Bitler showed for the world, according to those who knew him. That's what has made the tragedy of his murder during a robbery at his Reading barbershop all the more difficult to comprehend.

Bitler, a graduate of Owen J. Roberts High School, the son of Nancy and James E. Bitler, was 31 when he was gunned down last Friday.

"Scott evinced the kind of compassion for his whole community that we encourage for church people," said the Rev. Milton Detterline, minister of St. Peter's United Church of Christ on Route 23 in Knauertown.

"He was always thinking of other people," Bitler's mother, Nancy Bitler, said.

Detterline remembered Bitler, who was born in Pottstown, for the time he spent visiting his brother Greg after a "horrendous" accident that left Greg brain damaged and in need of round-the-clock nursing care.

"Scott went from Reading to the center in Hamburg every evening after work for a couple of months," said Detterline. After Greg was moved to a facility in Quakertown, Bitler made the trek there every Sunday and would cut his brother's hair himself, Detterline said.

"This is not a simple thing with his brother; He has shown that kind of compassion toward numbers of people," said Detterline.

Bitler's mother recalled how he looked after Greg and Greg's twin sister, both his younger siblings, when he was growing up.

"He was one of seven children," she said, noting that there was a big difference in age between the four older children and the three younger children. Bitler was the oldest of the youngest three. "He was great with all of them, all of them loved him."

A friend of Scott's who wrote from Pittsburgh remembered Bitler as the "warmest person I'd ever met."

"One of my fondest memories of Scott was during a winter storm in 02' or 03'," wrote Jessica Rummel, who said the two spent the afternoon hanging out at a local establishment. "We walked back to my place, a block away, and started a snow fight. It was all fun until 'somebody' got hurt. He quickly gained his spirit back and we made snow angels in the snow bank in front of my apt. It was probably really cold laying in the snow but, it didn't matter I was with the warmest person I had ever met."

Even after his death, Bitler continued to show his compassion for other people as an organ donor.

Rev. Detterline explained that Bitler's heart is beating in a 24-year-old Philadelphia man, his lungs were implanted in Philadelphia, his liver at Johns Hopkins Hospital, and a kidney in Harrisburg.

Bitler was a 1995 graduate of Owen J. Roberts High School and attended the Charlie Haynes Barber School in Reading, according to his obituary.

His mother said he played in Coventry Little League when he was younger and played football at OJR. He was also in Boy Scouts for a number of years.

Bitler was shot and killed in his Reading barbershop on Friday, Nov. 21, about 5 p.m. by two unidentified men who are still being sought by police.

It was just before closing time, and Bitler, who had owned the shop at 401 N. 13th Street for six years, and three other barbers were in the shop attending to their last two customers when the two

men burst through the front door and yelled, "Gimme the money. Gimme the money. Get on the floor," according to a spokesman for the Reading Police Criminal Investigation Unit.

The first man who came through the door was the only suspect witnesses got a good look at, police said, and was the one holding the gun that ended up claiming Bitler's life.

According to police, the two customers and three other barbers got down on the floor, and just then they heard the gunman say, "What are you doing?" supposedly to Scott Bitler. That's when the shot went off, witnesses told police.

Police said it was not known if Bitler had a gun or was attempting to do something to fight off the robbers at the moment he was shot.

According to the Berks County Coroner's Office, Bitler died of a single gunshot wound to the head and was pronounced dead at Reading Hospital and Medical Center on Saturday about 10 a.m. His death has been classified as a homicide.

After the shooting, the robbers immediately fled, empty handed, running uphill up Buttonwood Street and turning north on Linden, police said. They do not know if the robbers fled in a car from there or continued on foot.

Officers canvassed the neighborhood over the weekend, seeking anyone who may have witnessed the robbers' flight, and were still chasing down leads as of Tuesday afternoon.

Police described the two men as black and both were wearing dark-colored hoodies with the hoods pulled over their heads.

The gunman was 6 feet tall and had a mask over the lower half of his face, police said. He was also wearing dark pants. Both men were in their 20s, according to witnesses.

Police said the neighborhood was not prone to this type of violence, which made the incident all the more shocking.

"I would use the word difficult, Scotty was in a difficult neighborhood in Reading," said Detterline.

Nancy Bitler said she was just thinking about the irony of the situation she found herself in Tuesday morning.

"It's so ironic because when Scott was 13 he had a friend, his name was Adam Mumma," she said. Mumma was killed by a gunshot while riding his dirt bike in Chester County.

"I remember our church down here had a flea market and (Scott) set up a table and he was selling baseball cards and he put up a sign for donations (for Mumma), and now I turn around and they're doing it for (Scott).

The fund that's been set up where memorial contributions may be sent in Scott Bitler's name will go towards the education costs of his nephew, Sean Becker, 20. Becker is going to go to school for nursing.

"Scott used to say you can't just go through this life being a bum, you have to be a professional at something," Nancy Bitler said of the advice her son gave to Becker. It was Bitler who suggested Becker go to school for nursing.

The one thing Nancy Bitler said stands out in her mind about her late son is his love for his family.

"Family meant everything to him," she said. "Family was the thing for him."

Anyone with information that could help in the apprehension of the suspected robbers should contact Crime Alert Berks County at 877-373-9913.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend the funeral service for Bitler at the St. Peter's United Church of Christ, Knauertown, 1920 Ridge Road, St. Peter's, on Saturday, Nov. 29, at 10:30 a.m. Officiating will be the Rev. Milton E. Detterline. Burial will be in the church cemetery. Friends will be received from 6 to 8 p.m. Friday at the Cattermole-Klotzbach Funeral Home, 600 Washington St., Royersford; or from 9 to 10:15 a.m. Saturday at the church. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to aid in the tuition costs of Scott's nephew, Sean Becker. Checks may be made to "Nancy A. Bitler," and sent to the St. Peter UCC Church, Box 208, St. Peter's, PA 19470.

Comments

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Barbara Walker Tincher wrote on Nov 26, 2008 6:45 AM:

" My condolences go out for your family and I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your precious child. I never knew him, but my sister, Sandra Bitler spoke very highly of Scott. May God bless you all in this time of sorrow and God Speed to you Scott. "

Shannon wrote on Nov 26, 2008 8:55 AM:

" Scott sounds like an amazing man. I am sorry I did not know him. Hopefully the story of his last selfless act of being an organ donor will encourage more people to become organ donors themselves. "

Friend and neighbor wrote on Nov 26, 2008 10:02 AM:

" I cant begin to express my sympathy for Scotts entire family and his loving girlfriend April. I took my autistic son to Scott for a haircut about 4 years ago after numerous bad experiences at just about every barber shop in the Reading area, Scott and Will always made haircuts easy for my son, which ment more then he ever knew. I wish now I would have thanked him with more then just a tip. He ran a nice barber shop and so many young boys in the neighborhood looked up to him, for many he was the only positive male role model they had! We are all going to miss his smile, things wont be the same without him. All my love and prayers go to all that are hurting! I have faith justice will be served to the individuals involved, Scott was loved by many!!!! "

former classmate at OJR wrote on Nov 26, 2008 1:53 PM:

" I went to High school with Scott and I was very sad to hear what happened to him. I pray not only for his friends and family in this tough time, but also that the scum who did committed this cowardly act are quickly brought to justice and severely punished. "

RabsiesRose wrote on Nov 26, 2008 4:02 PM:

" I am a mother of a 32 year son, I cannot express how much my heart aches for your loss.....May Your Family and friends give you and your family comfort, and know that time does sooth the pain. God Bless "

josh wrote on Nov 26, 2008 4:07 PM:

" I went also to OJR and played sports with Scott . But i have many memories
after school and sports . This guy was so funny . Im so sadded to hear the news . Knowing him he wasnt going to lay down , he was going to save lives.
Scott you were a great guy and will be missed.As im thinging of you im just smiling and laughting.
Thanks friend ,
Josh "

Lamont Gibson wrote on Nov 26, 2008 6:45 PM:

" i seen scott two weeks before this happen in his shop and we were talking about my uncle who died and how he was sorry to hear that had happen so now i would like to return the same kindness to his mom and family of my condolenses on behalf of his passing.i will miss you and nerver forget the day trips fishing for blue gills.love you scott "

richard steele wrote on Nov 26, 2008 8:50 PM:

" This is very sad.As I read more into this.I see Scott was friends with Adam Mumma.I follow many tragic stories like this.I have come to know the Mumma Family.I am the guy who took down Adams killer. I urge any one who knows any information on this killing of scott please come forward.Do not fear these cowards.They need to be taken of the streets.Tried -and -executed. "

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